How Good Kinda Love began

A snapshot of what you can expect and what I have to offer you.

I started this grouping of websites to focus on areas of my life that I have become passionate about. The reason for these focus areas, and what I want to bring you, goes deeper into who I am.

I peaked my senior year of high school. Awards, scholarships… and I would say blah, blah, blah, but honestly, I worked hard for it, and I am happy I have some accomplishments under my belt. But after high school, as maybe with many of us, you have to start making choices, about which way you are heading in your life. Instead of choosing the athletic route I had available, I chose the academic route. Sadly, this is where things started to slightly downhill. My life turned into me stressing about keeping my scholarships… which is basically how I was in high school, trying to keep up my grades to earn scholarships. It paid off, pun intended, and I graduated with zero debt with my degrees.

Though, if I am being honest, it also took it’s toll on me. You know the freshman 15? That was me once I made it to university… then Sophomore 30, Junior 45, and Senior 60. After graduating in a horrible time of economic uncertainty, I landed my first 9 to 5 career after a year and a half of searching. Then, the stress I went through of micromanagers, competitive colleagues, and comparison, brought me to 75 pounds over my athletic prime time ‘healthy’ image.

I tried diets, exercise programs, and went up and down in weight. I always thought, “It’s okay. I will just keep trying” All this while working 60+ hours a week trying to impress others and get back to that prime of life equivalent. Unfortunately, I was trying to control everything, and that is when I hit a wall. Before I used to be the one that said, “I am determined.” To me that would get me to where I needed to be. The wall said differently.

My wall? I lost 30 pounds in 3 weeks. You might be thinking, “Umm. Isn’t that a good thing?!” Not when you are worried you could die from it, from not being able to stop losing weight. The diagnosis… hyperthyroidism / grave’s disease / autoimmune disorder / thyroiditis / overactive thyroid. I think my body was saying, “Enough! You need a break! You are running me into the ground!” I was. I thought that was the answer. Now, I know better, and when you know better you do better.

This is where you come in, I now know better. I have already started my journey. I want to share what I have learned with you through free resources or bundled packages that are easily summarized. I have started working with multiple groups on many improvements to my wellbeing, but sadly, some of them take your money and then don’t deliver; leaving me feeling taken advantage of. I am not here to do that. I want to be someone that offers free resources, hopefully hundreds upon thousands of nuggets of truth, to help you, and then if you need an easily bundled packet, sure, I can sell stuff as a packet for less than $10 or something.

I want to be a friend, the type of friend you want in your corner, trying to help out with life’s troubles. I will challenge you, because I believe loving someone is challenging them to do better, but I believe it will be worth it.

So, this is me, Miko Emenes, and my goal is to offer you hope via the good kinda love a friend would give. Check out the resources I have saved here that I am constantly updating and meet me in the comments of my many social media posts. Thank you for joining me and I look forward to getting to know you!